文章基于对中国Z世代婚育与家庭观念的考察，提出了中国家庭正经历一场深刻的祛魅转型。这一过程的核心在于，家庭正从一种不容置疑的人生目的转变为可供个体选择的实现目标的手段。通过分析原生家庭话语、恐婚恐育话语、“恋爱脑”批判、反PUA话语与行动、“断亲”及“全职儿女”现象这六条相互关联的路径，文章揭示了Z世代如何通过强调情感主权、个人选择与生活意义，系统性地挑战传统家庭制度的道德必然性。这一祛魅并非简单的拒绝，而是一套以自主、互惠和边界意识为核心的新社会伦理的生成过程。尽管存在性别、阶层和地域差异，但这一代际顿悟已形成广泛的文化影响力，重塑着中国的家庭与社会结构。

Based on an examination of Chinese Gen Z's views on marriage, childbearing, and the family, this article argues that the Chinese family is undergoing a profound process of “disenchantment”. At the core of this transformation is a shift whereby the family is no longer treated as an unquestionable “life purpose” but is instead redefined as a contingent “means for achieving individual goals”. By analyzing six interrelated pathways — discourses on the family of origin, narratives of fear of marriage and childbearing, critiques of “love-brain”, anti-PUA discourse, practices of “cutting off kinship”, and the phenomenon of “full-time children” — the article demonstrates how Gen Z systematically challenges the moral inevitability of the traditional family system through an emphasis on emotional sovereignty, individual choice, and the pursuit of life meaning. This process of disenchantment does not constitute a simple rejection of the family; rather, it entails the emergence of a new social ethic centered on autonomy, reciprocity, and boundary consciousness. Despite variations across gender, class, and region, this generational epiphany has already generated broad cultural resonance, reshaping family relations and social structures in contemporary China.